Yes, i believe they finished for good there but i dont think that was the main reason for their split. They were too young, sorta inmature, specially him
Age has nothing with maturity. You simply can't fit in with a person if that person is ( really) that much controlling, love has nothing to do with that.
Shady? Eh maybe that is the one. I just saw something controlling ex ... blah blah... lady gaga... that was pretty much enough for me. I just switch to something else after that. lol